Learn how to let go when things keep going in bad cycles

Learn how to let go when things keep going in bad cycles

The vicious cycle!

Have you had a situation, something or someone that you have worked so hard to put up with, and all your efforts keep failing? You have a relationship that keeps pulling you lower and lower, a thousand steps backward each time you try to take a step forward?

No matter the attachment, no matter the charm, if you don't let it go, you will keep running around in circles, your life stagnant and going down by each passing day. The world keeps moving on, no one is waiting for you! You have to fight it, now or never, build up your defenses and let it go!

 

Relationships

Life is made difficult because of how difficult we find it to let things go sometimes. In a relationship, maybe because you have spent on her and loved her and it seems it is not going to work.  you cannot get to any solution by giving yourself unnecessary high blood pressure!

Relationship is not a do or die affair. There are thousands of people praying and looking to meet someone like you, and you're tying yourself down and dying over one person? There is one sincere advise for you by Passenger, in his song, LET HER GO

Let it/him/her go!

About the song let it go

Let Her Go  is a song written and recorded by English singer-songwriter Passenger. It was recorded at Sydney's Linear Recording and co-produced by Mike Rosenberg (a.k.a. Passenger) and Chris Vallejo. The recording features Australian musicians Stu Larsen, Georgia Mooney, Stu Hunter, Cameron Undy, and Glenn Wilson. "Let Her Go" was released in July 2012 as the second single from Passenger's fourth album, All the Little Lights.

The song became a sleeper hit, achieving international success and topping the charts in many countries around the world. As of July 2014, it has sold over one million digital copies in the UK, and over four million in the US. In 2014, the song was nominated for the Brit Award for British Single of the Year, and won Passenger the British Academy's Ivor Novello Award for Most Performed Work. (Wikipedia)

 

Lyrics

Well, you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go
Staring at the bottom of your glass
Hoping one day you'll make a dream last
But dreams come slow, and they go so fast
You see her when you close your eyes
Maybe one day, you'll understand why
Everything you touch surely dies
But you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
Staring at the ceiling in the dark
Same old empty feeling in your heart
'Cause love comes slow, and it goes so fast
Well, you see her when you fall asleep
But never to touch and never to keep
'Cause you loved her too much, and you dived too deep
Well, you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go
Oh, oh, mm, oh
And you let her go
Oh, oh, uh, uh
Well, you let her go
'Cause you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
'Cause you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go

lyrics source: musixmatch

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Addictions

Have you got an addiction you're struggling with? Know that you are not the only one, not the first and definitely not the last to be challenged with such!

But then, you are on your own in this life. Your associations will one day leave you, parents will pass on someday. If you do not conquer it and let it  go, you may become an eyesore that your friends will start to avoid someday. If you don't fight it and let it go, you may lose your value in the society.  If you do not let it go depression will follow.

What have you got to gain to be alone in the whole wide world, just because you keep sticking to habits that destroy your life and make you an outcast in the society?

It is not easy, but you have to take a conscious effort to let it go!

 

Download and listen to the above song, it's not just your spiteful spouse, or abusive partners that you need to let go, you have to let go of anything that is not helping you to move forward in life. If it gets too hard, talk to  a counsellor, seek advise, or enroll for therapy! don't be quiet and suffer in silence while the life leaves you behind.

If all else fails, pray to the one true God, open your heart to him and turn to him in spirit and in truth, He is faithful and true. He will help you.

God bless. View this and more on our main website at https://hopecompass.org/2021/03/01/learn-how-to-let-go-when-things-keep-going-in-bad-cycles/